What's New - 8 Feb 2026

Auckland Art Gallery

Death Cafe - Auckland

For some time now, I have been attending these monthly events at the Auckland Art Gallery - simply to engage in discussion about aging and dying - with people who are interested in widening our understanding of dying.

They do not focus on death itself and no attendees (as far as I'm aware) are proponents of suicide. In fact, most chat is around living more effectively and being respectful and supportive of those around us who are experiencing difficulty in their later lives.

Death Cafe is a global institution - if you're interested, look for one near you.

Ian von Memerty

During my performing artist career, I was utterly enthralled with the talent of Ian von Memerty, a multi-talented performer and a thoroughly all-round gentleman.

I was thus quite surprised to discover that he, too, is considering an end-of-life choice. It was surprising in the sense that I knew he had a wife and children and was in a very different position when compared to me.

He is currently posting chronicles of his thoughts and decisions called "Dying for a Better Life".

https://www.facebook.com/eclecticelectricentertainment/

He has given me permission to provide a link here and I think you will find his open and frank analysis illuminating.

Ian von Memerty

On my mind ...

I still cannot comprehend that the 'wars' in Ukraine and Gaza are continuing. Of course, I know that there are complex and historical reasons, but really? In this day and age?

Have we learned nothing from history?

Only the weapons manufacturers are winning.

And as for the Epstein Entanglement, it looks like he's going to bring the whole capitalist world down, all whilst - some posit - he's now living quietly in Tel Aviv?

It seems that things are not as they seem in Beijing. Pundits are claiming that the President is currently - and quietly - being 'rolled'.

For inner peace, I look to the natural world.